The transition to retirement is particularly stressful, especially when one spouse retires before the other, says a new study by researchers at Cornell. During this time, couples fight much more and are significantly less satisfied with their marriages. Once both spouses are settled into retirement from their careers, however, marital satisfaction rebounds and couples report the highest levels of marital satisfaction with the least conflict, compared with their peers.
"It's not being retired but becoming retired that seems most stressful for marriages," said Phyllis Moen, a professor of sociology and human development at Cornell.
Newly retired men and women both report more marital conflict than either their not-yet retired or long-term retired (more than two years) counterparts. Marital quality slumps the most among couples in which only one spouse retires, especially when the husband retires and the wife keeps working.
When women first retire, however, they go through a spell of low marital satisfaction, whether their husbands are working or not. But they become more satisfied if they either go back to work in other jobs or their husbands retire and then go back to work. Women, especially employed women, report more marital conflicts when their husbands retire and do not go back to work.
"Men, however, show a different pattern. They reported the highest marital conflict if they retire but their wives haven't yet. When both husbands and wives move into retirement more or less together, men become much happier with their marriages," said Moen.
The study, co-authored with Jungmeen Kim, now an assistant professor at the University of Rochester, and Heather Hofmeister, a graduate student in sociology at Cornell, is published in the March 2001 issue of Social Psychology Quarterly.
The researchers drew on data, which was collected between 1994 and 1997, from the Cornell Retirement and Well-Being Study. They studied 534 married men and women between the ages of 50 and 74 in upstate New York who were either retired, newly retired or soon-to-be retired.
"Our findings suggest that retirement needs to be viewed as both a process and as a state," Moen said. "Also, we need to consider the life course notion of how lives are linked and affected by what a spouse does. Furthermore, retirement can no longer be equated with a one-way, one-time exit from the workforce and employment after retirement has important implications for marital quality. Post-retirement employed is related to marital quality differently than employment in one's career job is related to marital quality."
The study is part of a larger project, funded by the National Institute of Aging, as part of the Cornell Gerontology Research Institute, and the Alfred P. Sloan Foundation, as part of the Cornell Employment and Family Careers Institute.
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